Sunday, September 21, 2008

Equations of Relationship- Thank God I am bad in this :)

EQUATIONS… I never thought I will need this thing apart from my mathematical studies.I should gracefully admit that I was not an excellent student in math in my school days but I was not that bad too.Getting 71 out of 75 in 10th board in math somehow made me believe that even though I am not pretty good but not that bad .

I failed drastically in math’s (particularly equation’s )application in relationship. Although I was quite aware that all most all relationship work on the basis of equations..that is the give n take mathematics , I couldn’t develop my knowledge in this kind of equations. I have never been able to repay anything in any manner to those people who acted as God’s angels in my life n helped me to make my journey smoother ,at the same time I always tried to be my best to the people around me irrespective of the fact what I get back from them Sometimes I do find myself little bit out of place ..a stranger in this world of people who are great mathematician and can manage their relationship well with this equations.

But I am grateful to those people who made me learn that life is not about application of equations , its about learning how to love n live. I would like to share some incident or rather I should say I would like to thank those wonderful people who has made me feel that THANK GOD I AM BAD IN EQUATIONS OF RELATIONSHIP.

First :-I have a friend who has helped me a lot in my tuff time .Whenever I tried to thank him he stopped me saying that he is not helping me .....he is just doing the things which he is assigned to do by God ..so I should thank God . And I always did ..for giving me a chance to come across such wonderful people n learn from them.

Second:-My dad at his sick days couldn’t mange to go office on daily basis. One day I accompanied Dad to his office for some work, he was one of the manager there so the head clerk used to call him SIR. Dad has some paper work to be done through the head clerk ..he was ltl hesitant in asking him favor. When we went there the Head Clerk gave an encouraging smile offered us a seat . Then Dad told him that he is really feeling bad that they all have to do these wrk for him . And the reply he got from his head clerk is something I could never forget. With tears in his eyes he said ,"u know Sir we don’t do things, its God who make us do .. God actually blessed me in the form of being useful to u in any manner. Doing something for a person like u is a great thing for me. " And that day I have seen one of the most beautiful smile in my Dad’s face. A smile so pure n divine.

I was speechless at that moment. But if I will meet him today I will definitely touch his feet because he has gifted a wonderful thing to my dad n taught me one of the best lessons of my life.

~Ani~

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